Beyond The Shadow

The name "Beyond the Shadow" embodies a journey of transformation and resilience, signifying the move from darkness to light and encapsulating the challenges faced by individuals and families grappling with addiction. Shadows often represent fear, uncertainty, and struggle, but our focus is on what lies beyond—hope, healing, and the possibility of a brighter future. We aim to illuminate paths toward recovery, demonstrating that with support and understanding, it is possible to emerge from the shadows and embrace a life filled with purpose and fulfillment.

When a Snowstorm Creates Something Meaningful
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

When a Snowstorm Creates Something Meaningful

Last weekend, a massive snowstorm turned into something remarkable. Nine boys in recovery showed what real community looks like, then used a snow day to write for teens in treatment who need to hear from peers just a few steps ahead.

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Coming Back to Acceptance
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

Coming Back to Acceptance

Acceptance is not something that arrives once and stays. It is a practice of returning, especially when everything in you wants to resist.

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Letting Go of the Image
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

Letting Go of the Image

There is often a vision of how a moment should unfold. Learning to hold both the image you created and the one you lived is harder.

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Watching Them Become
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

Watching Them Become

As a new year begins, the people we love may be stepping into lives we cannot fully see. This is a reflection on learning how to hold uncertainty, trust, and love together without rushing to resolve any of it.

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Three Gifts
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

Three Gifts

This Christmas, I'm sharing three gifts for parents walking this road. Not something you unwrap. Something you already carry, even when you can't name it yet.

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They Are Still Children
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

They Are Still Children

They do work that would challenge most adults, and moments later they are laughing over Legos and gingerbread houses. This is the paradox of adolescent recovery, and the important responsibility of remembering they are still children.

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The M&Ms I Still Eat
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

The M&Ms I Still Eat

Families wait for the apology that sounds right, for their loved one to truly see the impact of their addiction. But what if empathy and understanding offer something forgiveness never could?

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You Too
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

You Too

The isolation of addiction makes you believe you are the only one living this life. This piece is about what happens when we discover we are not alone.

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Different Kinds of Thanksgivings
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

Different Kinds of Thanksgivings

Thanksgiving looks different when recovery is part of your story. Wherever you find yourself today, our community is with you.

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A Few Minutes of Compassion
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

A Few Minutes of Compassion

When we recognize what sits behind our emotions, we can give ourselves a chance to pause and reset. Those few minutes of compassion can change how we carry the weight of a full day.

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The Welcome
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

The Welcome

Welcome means something special at Woodhaven. It begins with a drive, a shared meal, and a room full of understanding. For both residents and parents, it is the moment connection begins and the reminder that no one has to walk this road alone.

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Chocolate Chip Pancakes in Rented Kitchens
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

Chocolate Chip Pancakes in Rented Kitchens

When home isn't safe, families find other ways to be together. Rented kitchens, chocolate chip pancakes, and the ritual of checking cabinets become the new definition of home.

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The Pot on the Stove
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

The Pot on the Stove

We can destroy the broken door, redecorate the basement, finally put away the pot. The reminders may fade, but the memories take longer to heal.

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Bringing Homework to School
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

Bringing Homework to School

The books told us to step back. Our kids needed us to step in. What they carry forward isn't perfect parenting. It's knowing we were there, and we still are.

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What We Thought We Were Missing
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

What We Thought We Were Missing

When our kids enter extended care, it’s easy to feel like we’re missing out. But sometimes what we thought we were missing was not the slammed doors or tense dinners, it was the chance to laugh, create, and share real moments that actually mattered.

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Standing in Slippers
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

Standing in Slippers

I never imagined I’d be standing in a shower at a sober house in Scranton, exhausted and scared, wondering how this became my life.

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When I Did My Loved One's College Applications
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

When I Did My Loved One's College Applications

For parents, it is natural to want to take over the college application process when recovery still feels fragile. But giving our children the chance to do it with support allows them to build the independence and confidence they truly need.

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You Have Grown So Much
Dr. Jill DeRosa Dr. Jill DeRosa

You Have Grown So Much

Growth often hides in plain sight, buried under the repetition of ordinary days. Sometimes it takes stepping back or stepping away to see the unmistakable signs of change.

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